Hello gentlemen! Interesting in getting her hot and bothered? Time to discuss the preliminary games before we get to the bedroom and take a little extra TLC to nibble on her, touch her, and make her wet with some foreplay.
Playing Hard to Get
Light touching in inappropriate places during times when sex can’t happen is—oh so—frustrating. The key is to keep a start and stop pattern. It’s like dancing and the movements of pulling in and pushing back as it creates arousal and desire because she wants what she can’t have.
Tip: Try wrapping your arms around her from behind and running your hand up her blouse and touching her stomach. Then, slip your hand slightly down her pants, kiss her neck, and pull away. Do this when you’re not in bedroom until she’s chomping at the bit to rip your clothes off.
Let her know that you care about making her feel good and not just about having sex. Start by giving her a massage with light kisses on the neck in between. Massage her butt, inner thy, breasts, and brush your fingers past sensitive areas without actually touching them.
Tip: As a gal, I love it when I know that my man loves to make me feel good and is not just “going through the motions” to have sex. Sensual massages make me feel adored, relaxed, and aroused.
Women are more sensitive on their neck than men. Move those soft and firm kisses from our shoulders up our neck to our earlobes.
Note: It makes my nerves electric and my body hot when I’m getting kisses on my neck from behind while my man’s arms are wrapped firmly and strongly around me.
For many women, being ready is all in their mentality. Sitting in the office and having the phone beep with a text and reading what you’d like to do her is erotic, especially when it’s something we really shouldn’t be thinking about it at that moment. It’s naughty and sexy. If you do this, she’ll be crossing her legs tightly at her desk and biting her lip. She’ll be all yours when you see her that night.
Skate a Figure 8
It’s time to skate, gentleman. When you’re headed south try some varying tongue movements and pressure techniques. Circle your tongue around her clit in a figure 8 pattern while constantly changing the pressure of your tongue. Also flick her clit from left to right with your tongue. This will drive her wild.
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